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                 (Kiri gives a long dissertation on
                          the mindset needed to use coercion in a
                          beneficial manner. She moves next to the
                          morals of coercion and examples of coercion
                          throughout history. She also explains how to
                          avoid the God complex of coercion.)
 
 
 Kiri:
                                          okay, my brief dissertation
                                          time. Everybody gets to
                                          dissertate tonight apart from
                                          Tia (speaking to Tia). Stop
                                          sticking your tongue out hon,
                                          I’ll bite it off. Okay…….
 
 Russ: Lyka doesn't get a
                                          dissertation?
 
 Kiri: no.
 
 Russ: oh.
 
 Kiri: every one of the
                                          regulars.
 
 Russ: oh.
 
 Kiri: okay let me see,
                                          coercion and certain mindsets
                                          for using coercion in a
                                          beneficial way. How does
                                          coercion benefit us? Well it
                                          is a tool that is used by an
                                          individual that is a coercer
                                          to be able to control and
                                          manipulate persons or entities
                                          or beings around them for a
                                          purpose that is beneficial to
                                          all parties. How do you decide
                                          what is beneficial for all
                                          parties? Well this is more of
                                          a gut instinct, what feels
                                          good, what is right, what you
                                          know to be morally…..seems to
                                          be the flavor of the week…..to
                                          be right. Is it moral to
                                          coerce somebody into giving
                                          you a job? I do love using
                                          this analogy and I will use it
                                          over and over again. Is it
                                          morally right to coerce
                                          somebody to give you a job?
                                          Well it depends on what the
                                          job is and whether or not you
                                          really need that job. If it is
                                          for betterment then yes, if it
                                          is for self-service, no.
                                          Because coercion is one of
                                          those interesting little
                                          abilities that if you don’t
                                          use it right, it will feed
                                          back on itself and in doing so
                                          it will cause harm to you.
                                          There are certain ways to keep
                                          on the straight and narrow.
                                          This most frequently is morals
                                          and gut instinct, is it right,
                                          is it wrong? Sometimes you
                                          don’t have time to decide
                                          whether it is right or wrong
                                          but do it. When you do find
                                          yourself in that situation,
                                          you can come back later and
                                          repair the damage that you
                                          have done as long as you do it
                                          with good intentions at heart,
                                          it is easy to repair any
                                          damage that you might have
                                          done. If it is done with a
                                          self-serving purpose and you
                                          know this, then it becomes
                                          more difficult to repair the
                                          damage that has been done but
                                          more necessary to repair the
                                          damage that has been done
                                          because if that is left
                                          unaddressed, it will come back
                                          to haunt you at a later time.
                                          Coercion in itself is a good
                                          tool, it's a very useful tool
                                          but it is one of the more
                                          harder ones to actually master
                                          and use beneficially. It is
                                          quite common from what I have
                                          heard on a third dimensional
                                          level to use it in a negative
                                          way. Sometimes coercion is
                                          used in what appears to be a
                                          negative way. For example, let
                                          us take my favorite topic,
                                          somebody that is sexually
                                          repressed and they have
                                          difficulty interacting in a
                                          sexual way. Using coercion to
                                          seduce a person like that,
                                          that wants to be sexually
                                          active and interactive is good
                                          because it frees up their
                                          libido from being bottled up
                                          and pent-up inside them. So by
                                          seducing somebody that wants
                                          to be seduced but is used to
                                          having their sexual urges
                                          repressed can be beneficial.
                                          Sometimes however you can
                                          unleash a monster as has
                                          happened quite a few times in
                                          the history of the world.
                                          Somebody that becomes after
                                          being coerced into becoming
                                          sexually active that turns
                                          into a sexual monster appetite
                                          wise has to be refocused and
                                          have that urge addressed
                                          because it will destroy them.
                                          For example, Katrina the
                                          Great, she was seduced and
                                          became very sexually active,
                                          it ruled her life. Certainly
                                          she was a great leader as a
                                          czarina, she could of been a
                                          lot better if she wasn’t
                                          hopping in and out of beds
                                          half the time. Another
                                          example, I can’t remember her
                                          name (Pasiphaë), but she
                                          became very sexually active in
                                          Greek mythology and ended up
                                          being seduced by a bull and
                                          giving birth to the Minotaur.
                                          This is a myth but it is also
                                          a way of looking at being
                                          overly sexually active. Now,
                                          when that situation occurs,
                                          the person that has opened up
                                          this individual to their
                                          sexual excesses needs to be
                                          the person that puts the
                                          proverbial cork back in the
                                          bottle but do not turn the
                                          person back into a sexually
                                          repressed person. They must
                                          learn how to have a sexual,
                                          sexually normal life but that
                                          again depends from the
                                          individual to individual. What
                                          is normal for me may not be
                                          normal for you. So, by using
                                          your coercion to help somebody
                                          in a sexually repressed state
                                          has to be done very carefully
                                          and how you do this is little
                                          by little, bit by bit.
                                          Otherwise as I pointed out,
                                          you will have a sexual monster
                                          on your hands. If you use it
                                          repeatedly and repeatedly and
                                          repeatedly to have an intimate
                                          reaction with the person that
                                          is sexually repressed, you
                                          will create the monster. You
                                          have to be able to do it as
                                          few times as possible for them
                                          to lead a normal life.
                                          Certainly coercing them to
                                          become sexually active to
                                          start off with is the only way
                                          that successfully works but if
                                          you use it the next time and
                                          the next time the next time,
                                          then you will create a
                                          monster. But if you don’t use
                                          it on the second time and it
                                          happens and you make love with
                                          that person, it must be done
                                          differently then the first
                                          time. It must be either very
                                          hard and fast or very slow and
                                          tender. It has to be the
                                          opposite of the initial
                                          coercive action so that they
                                          experience both sides of the
                                          coin. I suppose I could get
                                          myself a job as a sexual
                                          therapist on this, don't you
                                          think so Russ?
 
 Russ: I’d go.
 
 Kiri: of course you would go,
                                          you don’t need coercing on
                                          that. Do you have any
                                          questions now?
 
 Russ: yes, this ties along
                                          kind of with what Karra was
                                          saying in regards to the fact
                                          that isn’t being as a coercer
                                          subject to also that God
                                          complex?
 
 Kiri: yes.
 
 Russ: and beating that down,
                                          could you give me some and our
                                          audience of hundreds of
                                          listeners a….
 
 Kiri: an example?
 
 Russ: an example of how to
                                          beat it down, how to not do
                                          it, how to get around it or
                                          get out of it.
 
 Kiri: I’ve never experienced
                                          it. From what I’ve heard, it
                                          happens on the third
                                          dimension. Our educational
                                          system up here sets in certain
                                          rules that are, think what you
                                          are doing, think of the
                                          negative and the positive.
                                          Negative first, what can go
                                          wrong? What harm can you do?
                                          Then think of the positive and
                                          what good can come from
                                          coercion. So by having these
                                          simple structures and sitting
                                          down in a learning environment
                                          and debating the negatives of
                                          coercing in itself drives home
                                          the point that you can have
                                          failures and frequently you
                                          have failures in the early
                                          years learning how to use
                                          coercion. On the third
                                          dimension, I don’t really have
                                          the experience to be able to
                                          tell you what you must do to
                                          overcome that God experience
                                          except for again sooner or
                                          later it will happen where you
                                          will brought down.
 
 Russ: hmm, okay. Well I know
                                          you talked about that one
                                          corrupt coercer on Sirius.
 
 Kiri: uh-huh.
 
 Russ: and it sounds like a
                                          similar situation where he had
                                          a God complex.
 
 Kiri: no, he just got his
                                          kicks from doing harm.
 
 Russ: oh. Okay, now you did
                                          make one little statement
                                          there that I have a little
                                          problem with......
 
 Kiri: uh-huh.
 
 Russ: that maybe you can
                                          clarify where you said through
                                          your studies, it appears to
                                          be…..it’s much harder to act
                                          in a negative manner coercably
                                          on the third dimension.
 
 Kiri: I meant that the
                                          opposite way around.
 
 Russ: thank you. I had one or
                                          two little, slight problems
                                          with that when you said that.
 
 Kiri: uh-huh, it’s easier on
                                          the third dimensional to…
 
 Russ: easier yes.
 
 Kiri: yes coerce in a negative
                                          way.
 
 Russ: I was going to say, wait
                                          a minute. Okay yeah that makes
                                          more sense now.
 
 Kiri: uh-huh. Okay, my time is
                                          up.
 
 Russ: bye Kiri.
 
 Kiri: bye.
 
 
 
 (Ed. note: she
                      actually said, "Coercion
                                      in itself is a good tool, it's a
                                      very useful tool but it is one of
                                      the more harder ones to actually
                                      master and use beneficially. It is
                                      quite common from what I have
                                      heard on a third dimensional level
                                      to use it in a negative way.")
 
 
 
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