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                 (Omal has a great answer
                      to a question on making a move to a new location
                      and how it might impact the person. He uses the
                      Manhattan Project as an analogy of what change can
                      or cannot be like. The scientists at the
                      time were not completely sure that the resulting
                      chain reaction would not destroy the planet.)
 
 
 Larry:
                                                  if I were to make a
                                                  major move in my life,
                                                  could I presume that
                                                  the result of a major
                                                  move in my life could
                                                  be extremely positive?
 
 Omal: yes there is
                                                  that potential, it
                                                  depends on how major.
                                                  Sometimes the
                                                  necessary upheaval for
                                                  a major change in
                                                  itself is an
                                                  experience that is a
                                                  learning experience
                                                  which will throw you
                                                  on a path that at
                                                  first will seem wrong
                                                  and bad and things
                                                  will not go according
                                                  to plan because you
                                                  are not fully adjusted
                                                  to such a radical
                                                  change but over a
                                                  period of time, the
                                                  necessary struggle in
                                                  the early stages, the
                                                  difficulties and so on
                                                  would make you
                                                  stronger if you stick
                                                  to the path. If you
                                                  say to yourself, “this
                                                  is too hard, I cannot
                                                  do this” and back
                                                  down, then you have
                                                  not achieved what you
                                                  wish to do. People
                                                  often make the mistake
                                                  of charging into
                                                  something and then
                                                  saying, "this is too
                                                  hard" and not
                                                  finishing or following
                                                  through. Some of the
                                                  hardest advances or
                                                  the most wonderful
                                                  advances needed a lot
                                                  of work, a lot of
                                                  trying and trying and
                                                  trying until they
                                                  achieved their goal.
                                                  An example is the
                                                  Manhattan Project. Up
                                                  to the first initial
                                                  test of the atomic
                                                  bomb, they did not
                                                  know what the atomic
                                                  bomb would really do.
                                                  Whether the chain
                                                  reaction that would be
                                                  caused, whether it
                                                  would stop once the
                                                  fuel had been expelled
                                                  or if it would
                                                  continue and keep on
                                                  going and use up other
                                                  fuels creating a
                                                  nonstop chain
                                                  reaction. They were
                                                  pretty certain that
                                                  that would not happen
                                                  but they weren’t sure
                                                  that it would happen.
                                                  Fortunately it did not
                                                  happen, obviously
                                                  everybody is still
                                                  here and the chain
                                                  reaction stopped once
                                                  the fuel had been
                                                  expended. Making a
                                                  major change in one’s
                                                  life is a little bit
                                                  like that. You do not
                                                  know for certain what
                                                  the end results will
                                                  be but, like the
                                                  atomic bomb, the end
                                                  result could be very
                                                  beneficial if you
                                                  stick to the path.
                                                  After all, the atomic
                                                  bomb has given you
                                                  electricity, it has
                                                  given you ways of
                                                  curing cancers and a
                                                  major change is like
                                                  this. From a struggle
                                                  that is hard and
                                                  sometimes very
                                                  difficult, as long as
                                                  you follow through, it
                                                  will achieve the goal
                                                  that you wish.
                                                  Sometimes better than
                                                  you wish.
 
 Larry: thank you.
 
 
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